Staying Active With Dad: Three Fathers Share Their Stories

Movement serves as a universal language, and one of the most powerful ways fathers can connect with their children. According to a study published in the American Journal of Lifestyle Medicine, when parents model active lifestyles, they not only boost their own fitness but also lay the foundation for their children’s lifelong physical, social and cognitive development.

Regular physical engagement builds habits that can lead to healthier, happier lives. When a family engages in such activities together, what may have started out as exercise becomes a memory-making, relationship-enhancing and mood-boosting occasion.

Whether tossing a ball, hiking a trail or simply dancing in the living room, physical activity provides dads and kids a shared experience that strengthens their bond. There are many easy ways to spend quality time together away from the distractions of screens and daily routines.

 

Making Movement Fun

“The goal, at least from my parenting perspective, is to raise healthy, happy and resilient kids. A lot of people take for granted how powerful play can be,” says Brian Comly, an occupational therapist and father of two who founded the MindBodyDad blog to help families enjoy movement, play and togetherness. “It’s important for adults to model curiosity, creativity and connection, and instill these skills early. Oftentimes, the substitute is a phone, tablet or TV, which actually inhibits or atrophies these skills.”

W. Zach Smith, a Seattle-based physical therapist and founder of HIDEF Physical Therapy, believes that modeling healthy behavior and starting early is paramount, and it doesn’t have to be overly complicated. “Starting from a young age, I would bring my kids to the garage when I worked out. Now, both of them will copy me and grab small, one-to-three-pound dumbbells and do a lot of the exercises that I do,” Smith shares, adding that when the kids were younger, they would help him with the yard work, pulling the garden cart and picking up after him.

Rucking, a practice where a child is strapped to the back of a parent or caregiver for a walk, has been a favorite activity for both Comly and Smith. Smith notes that rucking not only enhances the physical challenge for the parent but also provides immense enjoyment for their children. As his daughter has matured, she has developed the ability to jump out of her stroller and run alongside it for extended periods, alternating between running and resting.

 

Prioritizing Connection

Physical activities foster a deeper connection between individuals, extending beyond simple muscle development. Andres Ochoa, a project manager in Chicago and a father of two daughters aged 10 and 12, has observed that engaging in shared physical activities strengthens their family bond. After meeting their respective sports commitments during the week, Ochoa makes sure to dedicate the weekends to family time.

Ochoa finds that shared physical activities enable him to remain fully present and focused, while minimizing distractions. “Being together and active creates moments of true connection, where kids feel seen and valued,” he says, noting that such moments can lead to meaningful conversations, stronger emotional ties and improved communication.

Depending on the season, Ochoa may take his daughters to their local YMCA to practice basketball or ride bikes on a nearby trail. Occasionally, they will set a family goal such as completing a 5K run. Ochoa’s primary objective is not to introduce additional stress into their lives. They participate in the Turkey Trot every year, and in the absence of scheduled races, engage in runs as a family, challenging each other. He often allows his daughters to take the lead in selecting their activities.

 

Small Habits, Big Impact

Even with today’s digital distractions, dads that prioritize physical activity find creative ways to incorporate movement into their daily routines. For instance, Ochoa walks his daughters to school every Friday whenever possible. If the weather is bad or they are headed somewhere after school, he strategically parks several blocks away, allowing them to walk for a portion of the journey.

While structured sports offer numerous benefits, Comly reminds parents not to forget about unstructured play. “Kids, for hundreds of thousands of years, evolved to explore the environment, not plastic toys,” he quips. “That’s literally how they learn and how they grow. They are meant to engage with each other, and in a natural environment, and the parent’s role is to help facilitate that, not interfere with it.”

 

Megy Karydes is a Chicago-based writer and author of 50 Ways to More Calm, Less Stress.

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