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A Holistic Approach to Men’s Physical & Sexual Well-Being

Jun 11, 2025 01:12PM ● By Jerome Bilaos

by Olga Ribble

As June rolls around, it’s time to shine a spotlight on men’s health and well-being. In a world where stereotypes often dictate that men should be tough, stoic, and resilient, it’s crucial to remember that men’s health encompasses far more than physical fitness alone. From mental well-being to sexual health, the spectrum of men’s health is wide and varied, deserving of attention, care, and understanding.

As a sex and intimacy coach for men, I encounter men grappling with a range of issues, including but not limited to premature ejaculation, erectile dysfunction, lack of intimacy, and relationship challenges. It is essential to approach men’s health with a holistic perspective, acknowledging that sexual health is just one component of overall well-being. Let’s delve into some key aspects that contribute to men’s health and how they intersect with sexual issues.

Physical Fitness and Nutrition: Regular exercise and a balanced diet are foundational pillars of good health for everyone, regardless of gender. Engaging in physical activity not only promotes cardiovascular health and muscle strength but also enhances mood and reduces stress. Moreover, maintaining a nutritious diet rich in fruits, vegetables, lean proteins, and whole grains supports overall vitality and energy levels, which can positively impact sexual function.

Mental Health and Emotional Well-Being: Men often face societal pressures to uphold an image of strength and invulnerability, which can inhibit open discussions about mental health. However, prioritizing mental well-being is paramount for holistic health. Stress, anxiety, depression, and other mental health issues can profoundly affect sexual desire and performance. Seeking support from mental health professionals, practicing mindfulness and stress-reduction techniques, and nurturing emotional connections with loved ones are all vital steps toward fostering robust mental health.

Self-Care and Stress Management: In today’s fast-paced world, chronic stress has become a prevalent issue that impacts men’s health on multiple levels. Learning to manage stress through self-care practices such as meditation, relaxation exercises, hobbies, and spending time in nature can promote overall well-being. Additionally, prioritizing adequate sleep and setting boundaries to prevent burnout are essential components of stress management that can positively influence sexual health.

Preventive Healthcare and Regular Check-Ups: Regular medical check-ups are essential for monitoring and maintaining men’s health. Routine screenings for conditions like high blood pressure, cholesterol levels, diabetes, and prostate health can help detect potential issues early on, allowing for timely intervention and treatment. Addressing underlying health concerns can mitigate the risk of developing complications that may impact sexual function.

Communication and Relationships: Effective communication skills are fundamental for maintaining healthy relationships, including intimate partnerships. Many sexual issues stem from miscommunication, unrealistic expectations, or unresolved conflicts within relationships. Encouraging open dialogue, active listening, and empathy can strengthen emotional bonds and enhance sexual intimacy. Couples who feel safe expressing their needs and desires are more likely to navigate sexual challenges together with compassion and understanding.

Harnessing Tantric Wisdom and Elevating Intimacy: Tantra, an ancient Eastern practice with roots dating back thousands of years, provides a comprehensive framework for sexuality and personal development that continues to resonate in contemporary society that extends beyond mere sexual techniques. Tantra provides a holistic framework for understanding the interconnectedness of mind, body and spirit. By integrating breath work, meditation, and mindful touch, Tantra offers a unique path to enhancing sexual experiences and overall life satisfaction.

In conclusion, men’s health encompasses a broad spectrum of physical, mental, and emotional well-being, with sexual health being just one aspect of the whole. By adopting a holistic approach that prioritizes physical fitness, mental health, communication skills, stress management, intimacy,  and Tantric practices, men can nurture their overall health and enhance their quality of life. 

Let’s use Men’s Health Month as an opportunity to raise awareness, break down stigmas, reduce shame, and encourage men to prioritize their well-being in every facet of life, physical, mental, relational, and sexual. Remember, seeking support and guidance is a sign of strength, not weakness, and every step taken toward better health is a step in the right direction.

Olga Ribble is a holistic sex and intimacy coach, and certified Skydancing Tantra educator. She works with men and couples at monthly events and private coaching. Her Long Lasting Lover private coaching program along with a 6-week online course Tantra For The Modern Man is tailored for men experiencing sexual performance concerns.

Location: offices in Northern New Jersey and online sessions. For information contact Olga by text at 862-251-2444 or email at [email protected], or visit NordicGoddessTantra.com and https://heal.me/holistic-sex-and-intimacy-coaching. See ad, page 16.


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Tick Talk

Spring officially sprung on March 21. We have turned our clocks ahead. We are looking forward to warm winds, sunny skies and the smell of fresh cut grass. The daffodils and tulips have recently bloomed and we are just starting with the yard work that comes with the warmer weather.  Sadly, another season has started ramping up.  Tick season.

•             The best form of protection is prevention. Educating oneself about tick activity and how our behaviors overlap with tick habitats is the first step.

•             According to the NJ DOH, in 2022 Hunterdon County led the state with a Lyme disease incidence rate of 426 cases per 100,000 people. The fact is ticks spend approximately 90% of their lives not on a host but aggressively searching for one, molting to their next stage or over-wintering. This is why a tick remediation program should be implemented on school grounds where NJ DOH deems high risk for tick exposure and subsequent attachment to human hosts.

•             Governor Murphy has signed a bill that mandates tick education in NJ public schools. See this for the details.  Tick education must now be incorporated into K-12 school curriculum. See link:

https://www.nj.gov/education/broadcasts/2023/sept/27/TicksandTick-BorneIllnessEducation.pdf

•             May is a great month to remind the public that tick activity is in full swing. In New Jersey, there are many tickborne diseases that affect residents, including Anaplasmosis, Babesiosis, Ehrlichiosis, Lyme disease, Powassan, and Spotted Fever Group Rickettsiosis.

•             For years, the focus has mainly been about protecting ourselves from Lyme disease. But other tick-borne diseases are on the rise in Central Jersey. An increase of incidence of Babesia and Anaplasma are sidelining people too. These two pathogens are scary because they effect our blood cells. Babesia affects the red blood cells and Anaplasma effects the white blood cells.

•             Ticks can be infected with more than one pathogen. When you contract Lyme it is possible to contract more than just that one disease. This is called a co-infection. It is super important to pay attention to your symptoms. See link.

https://twp.freehold.nj.us/480/Disease-Co-Infection

A good resource from the State:

https://www.nj.gov/health/cd/topics/tickborne.shtml

 

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