A Gentler Grip on the Wheel of Life

Life can be overwhelming at times. We diligently juggle work and personal commitments with outward precision while grappling with internal struggles, barely catching our breath, feeling off kilter and maybe a little ashamed that we can’t do it all. Somewhere along the line, we bought into the idea that worry puts us in the driver’s seat, granting us control over the road ahead.

We plan and strategize, convinced that holding the steering wheel in a white-knuckled grip will ensure the perfect outcome. We exhaust ourselves by running through an imagined maze and getting snagged on thorny what-ifs, too often investing precious energy into daydreaming about what could go wrong instead of wondering what could go right.

Professional dancers dedicated to their craft work six days a week and spend endless hours maintaining excellence. They attend classes even on performance days and undergo rigorous dress rehearsals before the curtain rises. Yet even these consummate professionals sometimes panic when the music begins, and they find themselves unable to recall a single nuance of their choreography. In such instances, when the mind is in lockdown, their bodies take over, moving fluidly on cue.

This seemingly miraculous phenomenon known as muscle memory serves as an inspiration for our daily lives. After hard work and preparation, worry becomes an unnecessary mind game. The lecturer delivers their most compelling speech when they throw away their notes. The teacher connects to a challenging student when they think outside the box and embrace an unconventional approach. The soloist springs into the air as effortlessly as a bird.

As September takes the stage adorned in the sun’s spotlight, let us take our hands off the wheel and allow the road to unfold into unforeseen magic. By ceasing relentless planning and embracing spontaneity, we just might live our best life. Now is the time to dance.

Marlaina Donato is an artist, author and composer. Connect at WildflowersAndWoodSmoke.com.

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