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The Art of Letting Go

Sep 30, 2025 09:27AM ● By Marlaina Donato

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Watching the days shorten at this time of year can tug at our heartstrings. Even within the delightful blush of an apple lies an undeniable wistfulness. And although summer must surrender to autumn, each falling leaf signals an opportunity to let go of a burden we’ve outgrown—a home, a relationship, a dream or a particular version of ourselves.

No matter which side of a goodbye we happen to be on, leaving can be painful. Just as the green meadow goes to seed, so does what we hold precious, but a spark of life remains in each fading blade of grass. Endings can also be blessings, even if it takes months or years before their gifts become known.

Each chapter of the year offers its own delights and wisdom, but it is our human tendency to clutch each hour for as long as possible. We can miss a harvest of joys when we only wish to taste the fruits of another season. For the ancient Celtic people, the holy time of Samhain marked the end of the harvest and the start of a new year. It was deemed a mystical time when the veil between the dead and the living grew thin, as well as an invitation to revel in some magic.

Perhaps this year we can grieve the bright transience of summer while gathering our spiritual stores. Perhaps we can relish autumn’s sweetness despite the dance of decay, inviting a new chapter, a new mindset, as nature takes back its own.

 

Some rites of passage for inspiration:

  • Gather a small handful of sunflower or pumpkin seeds. Take each seed in hand and name something that has been lost or relinquished. Place them beneath a tree or bury them underground, inviting a new year of blessings.

  • Taking inspiration from the Celts, host a Samhain celebration on Halloween night commemorating the end of summer and the beginning of winter while setting a plate and chair in honor of a loved one that has passed.

 

Marlaina Donato is an author, painter and composer. Connect at WildflowersAndWoodSmoke.com.


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