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Organizing Time and Space for Mental Calm

Oct 01, 2025 03:52PM ● By Jerome Bilaos

By Sherry Onweller

Looking to have a calm, peaceful and in control feeling in life, this often begins with organizing one’s physical and mental space. A tidy, uncluttered environment has the power to clear the mind, reduce stress, and significantly improve mood and perspective. The desire for peace can serve as a powerful motivator for taking the necessary steps to get organized. Rather than allowing the home to be a source of stress or negativity, it can be transformed into a space that uplifts and supports. Mental clutter can decrease positivity, so it is also important to have a weekly time management plan, and systems in place for organizing one’s time. Rising above the clutter, creating systems, and taking control of one’s surroundings and time are essential steps toward reclaiming both space and peace of mind.

Just as a walk can help clear the head, decluttering can bring a profound sense of calm and order. Disorganization often drains one’s energy, especially when time is lost searching for misplaced items or when poor scheduling and time management practices lead to being late. By establishing designated spaces and simple systems, individuals can experience greater balance and ease.

Organization extends beyond the physical environment, it touches every part of life including: mental clarity, setting daily routines, time management, and emotional wellbeing. With a thoughtful plan and consistent systems, one can cultivate feelings of peace, control, balance and joy. The process doesn’t demand perfection or speed, but rather it invites progress at a personal pace. Organization is more of a marathon than a sprint, taken one step at a time, guided by what suits each individual best.

Taking control of one’s space can create a grounding effect, offering a sanctuary from daily demands and a place of comfort, stability, and calming mindfulness. It also enhances confidence in welcoming others into the home, freeing individuals from the guilt that often comes with procrastination or chaos. Everyone must decide what kind of relationship they want to have with their belongings. It is, at its core, a personal journey. But when possessions begin to feel burdensome, it may be time to reevaluate and make meaningful changes. Many carry the emotional weight of clutter or the added challenge of navigating family dynamics tied to letting go.

Taking control of one’s time, projects, schedule and activities can lead to feeling excited about what is to come, and at the same time feeling grounded and in control. Being deliberate with work, volunteer, family, social and home tasks by scheduling and planning for them leads to greater productivity and satisfaction.

A clear, organized home and a solid system for scheduling one’s time allow for a greater sense of control and readiness for life’s uncertainties. It liberates the mind to focus on what truly matters, bringing a lightness to both space and thought. Even small, consistent decluttering efforts can make a big impact. Setting manageable weekly goals to help get one’s home and schedule of tasks in order can lead to profound improvements in well-being and happiness.

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Tick Tackler

Spring officially sprung on March 21. We have turned our clocks ahead. We are looking forward to warm winds, sunny skies and the smell of fresh cut grass. The daffodils and tulips have recently bloomed and we are just starting with the yard work that comes with the warmer weather.  Sadly, another season has started ramping up.  Tick season.

•             The best form of protection is prevention. Educating oneself about tick activity and how our behaviors overlap with tick habitats is the first step.

•             According to the NJ DOH, in 2022 Hunterdon County led the state with a Lyme disease incidence rate of 426 cases per 100,000 people. The fact is ticks spend approximately 90% of their lives not on a host but aggressively searching for one, molting to their next stage or over-wintering. This is why a tick remediation program should be implemented on school grounds where NJ DOH deems high risk for tick exposure and subsequent attachment to human hosts.

•             Governor Murphy has signed a bill that mandates tick education in NJ public schools. See this for the details.  Tick education must now be incorporated into K-12 school curriculum. See link:

https://www.nj.gov/education/broadcasts/2023/sept/27/TicksandTick-BorneIllnessEducation.pdf

•             May is a great month to remind the public that tick activity is in full swing. In New Jersey, there are many tickborne diseases that affect residents, including Anaplasmosis, Babesiosis, Ehrlichiosis, Lyme disease, Powassan, and Spotted Fever Group Rickettsiosis.

•             For years, the focus has mainly been about protecting ourselves from Lyme disease. But other tick-borne diseases are on the rise in Central Jersey. An increase of incidence of Babesia and Anaplasma are sidelining people too. These two pathogens are scary because they effect our blood cells. Babesia affects the red blood cells and Anaplasma effects the white blood cells.

•             Ticks can be infected with more than one pathogen. When you contract Lyme it is possible to contract more than just that one disease. This is called a co-infection. It is super important to pay attention to your symptoms. See link.

https://twp.freehold.nj.us/480/Disease-Co-Infection

A good resource from the State:

https://www.nj.gov/health/cd/topics/tickborne.shtml

 

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