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Seize the Day!

Jul 31, 2025 09:27AM ● By Marlaina Donato
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Art historian Bernard Berenson once said, “I wish I could stand on a busy corner, hat in hand, and beg people to throw me all their wasted hours.” Although no one has an inexhaustible number of years on the planet, we don’t realize that life is flying by. Most of us seem to be in a hurry all the time, even when we don’t need to be.

Memories of our most cherished moments have become intangible phantoms. Snapshots, stored on smartphones and rarely printed, are lost in a blizzard of social media posts. Although we photograph everything—even what’s on our dinner plate—the full engagement of our senses is perennially postponed to an ambiguous later date when we “have more time”. Somehow, we have become spectators of our own lives, never quite living the moments our technology is preserving.

Consider the supplication of Roman poet Horace: Carpe diem! To seize the day is more than a feel-good motto. It can be a spiritual discipline. Unplugging from the compulsion to have a phone or camera in hand at all times can be a wonderful starting point. Reserving one day each week to turn off our devices and become fully immersed in meals and social activities can help us shed our public personas and get back to who we truly are.

Choosing to speak in person or on the phone instead of texting can remind us that human voices spark deep, human connection, boosting the immune system and uplifting our mood. Face-to-face interactions remind us that we are valued and heard, and that we are capable of providing that crucial validation for others.

As our world spins into the age of artificial intelligence with so many exciting possibilities, we also want to ensure that what makes us human remains intact. Living fully and harmoniously is an invitation to cultivate authenticity, prioritize the present moment and inspire others by example. Seizing the day may truly be our greatest accomplishment.

 

Marlaina Donato is an author, visionary painter and composer. Connect at WildflowersAndWoodSmoke.com.


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Tick Talk

Spring officially sprung on March 21. We have turned our clocks ahead. We are looking forward to warm winds, sunny skies and the smell of fresh cut grass. The daffodils and tulips have recently bloomed and we are just starting with the yard work that comes with the warmer weather.  Sadly, another season has started ramping up.  Tick season.

•             The best form of protection is prevention. Educating oneself about tick activity and how our behaviors overlap with tick habitats is the first step.

•             According to the NJ DOH, in 2022 Hunterdon County led the state with a Lyme disease incidence rate of 426 cases per 100,000 people. The fact is ticks spend approximately 90% of their lives not on a host but aggressively searching for one, molting to their next stage or over-wintering. This is why a tick remediation program should be implemented on school grounds where NJ DOH deems high risk for tick exposure and subsequent attachment to human hosts.

•             Governor Murphy has signed a bill that mandates tick education in NJ public schools. See this for the details.  Tick education must now be incorporated into K-12 school curriculum. See link:

https://www.nj.gov/education/broadcasts/2023/sept/27/TicksandTick-BorneIllnessEducation.pdf

•             May is a great month to remind the public that tick activity is in full swing. In New Jersey, there are many tickborne diseases that affect residents, including Anaplasmosis, Babesiosis, Ehrlichiosis, Lyme disease, Powassan, and Spotted Fever Group Rickettsiosis.

•             For years, the focus has mainly been about protecting ourselves from Lyme disease. But other tick-borne diseases are on the rise in Central Jersey. An increase of incidence of Babesia and Anaplasma are sidelining people too. These two pathogens are scary because they effect our blood cells. Babesia affects the red blood cells and Anaplasma effects the white blood cells.

•             Ticks can be infected with more than one pathogen. When you contract Lyme it is possible to contract more than just that one disease. This is called a co-infection. It is super important to pay attention to your symptoms. See link.

https://twp.freehold.nj.us/480/Disease-Co-Infection

A good resource from the State:

https://www.nj.gov/health/cd/topics/tickborne.shtml

 

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